* And this is what, in my opinion, in the family – nedopustimo. A bit of reality. Usually, if one (not to mention beloved or even close, say simply – one), another reserve (the act) or hit (in word or tone), I want to answer him in the same or something different, but most importantly – pobolnee. Besides, you do not want to have anything to do with it, I want to leave him and with him not to talk. A minute ago he was good, and hurt you (even accidentally) – and it already seems bad (set colorful epithets Diversity). You yourself want to behave contentious reply to kp kp. Do not do it! * Puzzles: one gave kp, another cp responded. Guilty of both, but who more? Response to our family: "More than blame is not the one who started first, and who first went on.

They want to know what will happen the next moment and what to expect from the future. Eating, sleeping, playing, chatting with mom and dad, the choice of clothes for tomorrow – everything must go on schedule. Motivate them to action is easiest to comments like: "And now it's time to do something " or "And now we're going to do " This is a very good-natured and thoughtful children. To any activity they need more time, but they will surely perform it properly and more than other children resist any change. Read more here: David G. DeWalt. These children make decisions slowly, and should not be asking them what they think and feel what they want. Instead, they say, what to do. How and sensitivity to children, they need more time to do something or change something. Have again and again assure that everything is thought out and goes according to plan.

And begin to behave as he always wanted. The second method can be called the admonition – is when you knock out the child vows and commitments. Go to Gerald Weissmann, MD for more information. Ie pestering until just before he is forced to promise you – clean up after themselves, do their homework, do not arrive late, etc. This creates the appearance that a child like as claimed responsibility and is going to implement these intentions. You may have really motivated and he really wants genuinely wants to fulfill those commitments! After all, he wants you to enjoy! And what is bad such a wonderful method? Yes, the fact that the natural result in this case will be the inevitable relapse! One fine day emotional fuse has run its course and the baby somehow break a promise God forbid, you still start him this reproach – add another and a sense of guilt, which will force him to withhold information about broken promises, if any, Avoid contact with you. Try something promise to a friend, and then regularly violate that promise. What will you feel? Knowing that this person is always waiting for you to promise In general, the oaths and promises, too really does not change anything in the child's behavior. Try to follow – how often do you use to communicate with the child, these two methods? And I thought that could be done instead? I would be glad if you have already decided a similar problem and found a way out together with their children.